{"id":3432,"date":"2023-04-28T12:45:40","date_gmt":"2023-04-28T11:45:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/?p=3432"},"modified":"2023-04-28T12:59:04","modified_gmt":"2023-04-28T11:59:04","slug":"thought-for-the-week-the-power-of-showing-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/2023\/04\/28\/thought-for-the-week-the-power-of-showing-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Thought for the Week \u2013 The Power of Showing Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3433\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/2023\/04\/28\/thought-for-the-week-the-power-of-showing-up\/power-of-showing-up\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up.png\" data-orig-size=\"400,400\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"power-of-showing-up\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up.png\" class=\"wp-image-3433 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up-300x300.png\" alt=\"power-of-showing-up\" width=\"239\" height=\"239\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up-200x200.png 200w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/power-of-showing-up.png 400w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 239px) 100vw, 239px\" \/><span style=\"font-size: 1em; font-family: var(--font-base, 'IBM Plex Sans', -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', 'Roboto', 'Oxygen', 'Ubuntu', 'Cantarell', 'Fira Sans', 'Droid Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif);\">Last week&#8217;s Thought for the Week was; <\/span><em style=\"font-size: 1em; font-family: var(--font-base, 'IBM Plex Sans', -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', 'Roboto', 'Oxygen', 'Ubuntu', 'Cantarell', 'Fira Sans', 'Droid Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif);\">\u201cA Life Less Ordinary\u201d<\/em><span style=\"font-size: 1em; font-family: var(--font-base, 'IBM Plex Sans', -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', 'Roboto', 'Oxygen', 'Ubuntu', 'Cantarell', 'Fira Sans', 'Droid Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif);\"> about the incredible Darren Robson who left such a powerful legacy. He most definitely lived a life less ordinary and empowered so many others to do that too, myself included.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>You can see this and all of my previous blogs <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/blog\">HERE<\/a><\/span>.<\/p>\n<p>Darren was a down to earth guy and people felt relaxed in his company, while at the same time, he wanted to get to know them and always saw the best in everyone he met.<\/p>\n<p>As you know, I&#8217;m a coach and also run\u00a0 a number of programmes around <em>Communication.<\/em> My last couple of posts have been around \u2018<em>proximity<\/em>\u2019 and how we become the people we spend most of our time with. \u00a0So, what has this got to do with Communication?<\/p>\n<p>Well, I believe that it\u2019s all about how we \u2018show up\u2019 when we are with other people and yes, that may be different depending on who we are with! And how they show up with us to some degree.<\/p>\n<p>Life can be so challenging sometimes when you just want to pull up the covers in the morning, burrow deeper into your mattress, and hide away from it all. This is precisely why showing up is such a big deal.<\/p>\n<p>And here\u2019s the thing \u2026<\/p>\n<p>Do we decide how we will be with others depending first on how they are with us? If we do that, who is in control? And it\u2019s not that we want to have control over others, ideally we want to remain equal to them. And that is communication in itself.<\/p>\n<p>So, of course we want to spend most of our time around those we are most comfortable with, can be ourselves and feel good.<\/p>\n<p>At the same time, when we are around those who we feel less comfortable with, do we have to change the way we are? Of course not. If we do, then we\u2019re just perpetuating this circle of potential conflict.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><em><strong>\u201cThe energy we show up with is more often than not the energy we encounter\u201d.\u00a0&#8211;<\/strong><\/em><strong><em>Rasheed <\/em><\/strong><em>Ogunlaru-<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>[A<\/em><em>uthor of the book Soul Trader \u2013 Putting the Heart Back into Your Business]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>If we \u2018show up\u2019 the same way with everyone, every time, what have we got to lose?<\/p>\n<p><em>According to Jeffrey Fry (Author of \u2018Distilled Thoughts\u2019), the formula for success is 2% talent, 8% luck, and 90% of showing up every day.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>How do you show up every day with everyone?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><em><strong>Instead of showing up to let everyone know how great we are, show up to find out how great everyone else is.<\/strong><\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><em>-Simon Sinek-<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em>[Author and Inspirational Speaker]<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I will leave you with that thought and will be in touch again soon with more thoughts and tips.<\/p>\n<p>*|FNAME|*, if you <em>would <\/em>like to explore this further with me, I would love to hear from you. You can choose a time that best works for you <span style=\"color: #ff6600;\"><a style=\"color: #ff6600;\" href=\"https:\/\/calendly.com\/korinne\/meeting-with-korinne\"><strong>HERE<\/strong><\/a><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>With best wishes for your success,<em><strong><br \/>\n<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3062\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/2022\/12\/16\/thought-for-the-week-the-power-of-self-compassion\/signature-cropped\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/signature-cropped.png\" data-orig-size=\"159,70\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"signature-cropped\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/signature-cropped.png\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3062\" src=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/12\/signature-cropped.png\" alt=\"signature-cropped\" width=\"159\" height=\"70\" \/><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Korinne Le Page<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #0000ff;\"><a style=\"color: #0000ff;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/korinnelepage\/\">LinkedIn\u00a0<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Last week&#8217;s Thought for the Week was; \u201cA Life Less Ordinary\u201d about the incredible Darren Robson who left such a powerful legacy. He most definitely lived a life less ordinary and empowered so many others to do that too, myself included. You can see this and all of my previous blogs HERE. 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