{"id":5415,"date":"2025-05-23T11:04:21","date_gmt":"2025-05-23T10:04:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/?p=5415"},"modified":"2025-05-23T11:04:21","modified_gmt":"2025-05-23T10:04:21","slug":"thought-for-the-week-misunderstood-now-what","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/2025\/05\/23\/thought-for-the-week-misunderstood-now-what\/","title":{"rendered":"Thought for the Week: Misunderstood \u2013 Now What?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"5416\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/2025\/05\/23\/thought-for-the-week-misunderstood-now-what\/misundertstanding-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/misundertstanding.png\" data-orig-size=\"318,159\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"misundertstanding\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/misundertstanding.png\" class=\"wp-image-5416 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/misundertstanding-300x150.png\" alt=\"misunderstanding\" width=\"340\" height=\"170\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/misundertstanding-300x150.png 300w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/05\/misundertstanding.png 318w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 340px) 100vw, 340px\" \/>Misunderstood? It\u2019s more common than you think.<\/p>\n<p>Last time, we explored <em>\u201cThe Energy of Presence \u2013 Are You Really Here?\u201d<\/em> \u2013 how showing up fully and attentively is often more powerful than words. If you missed it, you can catch up <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/2025\/05\/19\/thought-for-the-week-the-energy-of-presence-are-you-really-here\/\">here<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Now, one thing that many of us struggle with is being misunderstood \u2013 even if we are being truly present and are great communicators. It happened to me this week.<\/p>\n<p>How often have you found yourself in a conversation where you believed that you were being clear, open, present and showing care, and yet the other person walked away with a completely different impression than intended?<\/p>\n<p>Yes, it can be confusing and frustrating, and we have to remind ourselves that communication isn\u2019t just about how we deliver; it\u2019s about how it\u2019s received. It is the space between intention and interpretation is where misunderstanding lives.<\/p>\n<p>So, this week, let\u2019s unpack the nature of misunderstanding &#8211; why it happens, how to handle it without defensiveness, and how to respond with grace when our best efforts still miss the mark.<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><strong>Why Misunderstanding Happens &#8211; Even When We\u2019re \u201cGood\u201d Communicators:<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li>Everyone hears through their own filter &#8211; shaped by past experiences, fears, perceptions and assumptions.<\/li>\n<li>Presence doesn\u2019t override perception &#8211; even the most grounded delivery can be misread.<\/li>\n<li>Tone, timing, and context all carry weight &#8211; and sometimes they say more than our words.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><strong>How to respond to Misunderstandings, gracefully:<\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Don\u2019t Rush to Defend:<\/strong> Your instinct might be to explain or justify. Instead, pause. Take a breath. Respond, don\u2019t react.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Get Curious, Not Combative:<\/strong> If appropriate, you could try asking something like this: \u201cCan I ask how that came across for you?\u201d You might uncover a blind spot &#8211; or an emotional undercurrent that needs tending.<\/li>\n<li><strong> Clarify, Gently:<\/strong> Once you\u2019ve listened, reframe your intent. \u201cThanks for sharing that. What I meant to say was \u2026\u201d (Not to prove yourself right, rather to re-align the connection).<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Being misunderstood doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019ve failed. It means you\u2019re in a real human interaction \/ relationship &#8211; one that involves risk, repair, and growth.<\/p>\n<p>Connection isn\u2019t built through perfect communication &#8211; it\u2019s built through the willingness to stay in the room when things go a bit pear-shaped!<\/p>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><strong><em>\u201cWhenever you feel misunderstood, remember that every person you meet has a different internal dictionary.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/span><\/h4>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\">&#8211; Haemin Sunim <em>&#8211;<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">[Korean Buddhist teacher, author of \u2018The Things You Can See Only When You Slow Down.\u2019]<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/subscribe-to-thrive\/\">Subscribe to Thrive<\/a><\/span> to receive further insights and tips on each week\u2019s topic<\/p>\n<p>With warmest wishes,<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"3183\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/home\/signature-cropped-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/signature-cropped.png\" data-orig-size=\"159,70\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"signature-cropped\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/signature-cropped.png\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-3183\" src=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/signature-cropped.png\" alt=\"korinne-sig\" width=\"159\" height=\"70\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Korinne Le Page<br \/>\nThrive Coaching &amp; Training <\/strong><em>\u2013 Empowering You to Thrive!<br \/>\n<\/em>P.S. Feel free to share your experiences and insights!<\/p>\n<p>P.P.S. Book a complimentary Clarity Session with me <span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/shorturl.at\/TQXER\">here<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff9900;\"><a style=\"color: #ff9900;\" href=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/about\/testimonials\/\">Testimonials<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/korinnelepage\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1705\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/home\/linkedin-logo\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo.png\" data-orig-size=\"512,512\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"linkedin-logo\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo.png\" class=\"alignnone  wp-image-1705\" src=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo-300x300.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"65\" height=\"65\" srcset=\"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo-400x400.png 400w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo-200x200.png 200w, https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/linkedin-logo.png 512w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 65px) 100vw, 65px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>#Communication #ThoughtForTheWeek #ThriveCoachingTraining #Connection #Leadership #Misunderstanding<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Misunderstood? It\u2019s more common than you think. Last time, we explored \u201cThe Energy of Presence \u2013 Are You Really Here?\u201d \u2013 how showing up fully and attentively is often more powerful than words. If you missed it, you can catch up here Now, one thing that many of us struggle with is being misunderstood \u2013&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":176728601,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_coblocks_attr":"","_coblocks_dimensions":"","_coblocks_responsive_height":"","_coblocks_accordion_ie_support":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"default","_kad_post_title":"default","_kad_post_layout":"default","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"default","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"default","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"_kad_post_classname":"","_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1389],"tags":[1470],"class_list":["post-5415","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-communication","tag-communication-thoughtfortheweek-thrivecoachingtraining-connection-leadership-misunderstanding"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pgKEDA-1pl","amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5415","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/176728601"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5415"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5415\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5417,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5415\/revisions\/5417"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5415"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5415"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thrive-coaching.biz\/test.thrive-coaching.biz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5415"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}