Thought for the Week – X is for X-Factor and Xciting!
So, we are approaching the end of the A to Z of Successful Business Owners and Leaders and this week is all about “X is for X-Factor and Xciting!”
So, how does “Xciting” come into it?
“Xciting” gives us the X-Factor we need to be inspired in all we do.
A few weeks back, we looked at “G is for Goals”.
You will have heard about “SMART” Goals …
Well, have you heard about EXACT Goals? In coaching, I like to explore these as opposed to SMART Goals, and I will explain why.
When it comes to your aspirations, EXACT takes you a step further. EXACT stands for …
- Explicit (with one focus)
- Time-framed (ideally within 3 to 6 months)
You will notice that the following are the same as in SMART:
Explicit (Specific), Assessable (Measurable) and Time-framed.
So, what is in EXACT then that is not in SMART?
Explicit – here the goal is succinct, in a few words and has one focus, and …
Xciting – positively framed and inspiring to that person
Challenging – goals that stretch us and aim high.
I used to think that setting goals was important but uninspiring and now I know why – because when I was introduced to EXACT Goals, everything changed for the better.
And I cannot emphasise enough what a difference this makes – honestly.
And it is all about where our energy is!
Our energy is much higher when we are inspired – nothing will stop us moving forward and we become anchored to that goal and it is much more likely to happen.
And this is the X-Factor and Xciting!
And a goal doesn’t have to be put into words, it can be an image in our mind, a symbol of some kind, or even a feeling.
My goal is all about Freedom and I have an image in my mind of what that looks like. For me, freedom is about peace of mind and stems from a time in my life when I didn’t have that.
So, when I established my EXACT Goal, everything changed, my goal became all-important to me and it was completely life-changing.
So, if you gave a got a goal, I invite you to check it off against EXACT and see how excited you feel. If you don’t feel excited by it, then you are not there yet!
(You might also want to revisit “G is for Goals”).
I hope you have enjoyed this “Thought for the Week”!
And if you haven’t already, remember that I would love to help you to explore your own aspirations and create a roadmap to success with you.
You can book your Free Clarity Session and there is absolutely no obligation and we can meet via Zoom or Skype.
Have a great week!
Very best wishes for your success.