“When was the last time you truly felt heard in a conversation? What made the difference?”
Last time, we explored Connecting Through Culture – recognising that culture is more than nationality; it’s shaped by our values, experiences, and perspectives. If you missed it, you can catch up here.
This week let’s build on that idea by looking at something simple but powerful: how we listen.
As you know, I am passionate about the power of truly listening and the impact it has on meaningful communication. So, this week, let’s take it a step further. Rather than just hearing words, how can we develop our listening skills to create space for meaningful dialogue?
When we truly listen – not just to reply, but to understand – we foster deeper connections with everyone we interact with.
Of course, in fast-moving conversations, it’s easy to fall into the habit of listening just enough to respond rather than to truly understand. When we do that though, what’s the cost, not only to that person, also to ourselves?
We risk missing something extremely important, as well as the deeper meaning behind someone’s words – especially when cultural differences shape how we communicate.
True listening – the kind that fosters connection and understanding – requires something more: presence, patience, and curiosity.
Regenerative thinking reminds us that real connection isn’t just about what we say, it’s about how well we listen.
Why Listening is a Regenerative Practice
Regenerative thinking is all about growth and renewal. When applied to listening, it means creating space for dialogue that evolves rather than remains stuck in old assumptions.
But here’s the challenge: most of us have been conditioned to listen reactively. We listen to defend, to respond, or to fix – rather than to truly understand.
Listening Beyond Words
Different cultures communicate in different ways. Some prioritise directness, while others value subtlety. Some express disagreement openly, while others use indirect cues.
If we only listen at surface level, we risk misinterpreting meaning or reinforcing unconscious biases.
Regenerative listening invites us to go deeper:
- Pause before responding: Instead of rushing to reply, take a moment to reflect.
- Listen with curiosity: Ask open-ended questions rather than assuming.
- Notice the unspoken: Pay attention to body language, tone, and context.
- Stay open to being challenged: True listening means being willing to shift our perspective.
The Impact of Deep Listening
When we listen with intent, we create conversations where people feel heard, valued, and understood. This strengthens relationships, improves collaboration, and fosters an environment where diverse perspectives can thrive.
“Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”
– Stephen R. Covey –
So, this week, how might you practise regenerative listening? Try slowing down, asking thoughtful questions, and truly tuning in. The results might surprise you.
Wishing you a great week and let’s keep the conversation going.
With warmest wishes,
Korinne Le Page
Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering You to Thrive!
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