The Conversations We’re Not Having – How unspoken thoughts, assumptions and avoided conversations influence professional relationships and effectiveness. There are conversations we have every day at work. Meetings, discussions, updates, exchanges of information and the everyday interactions that keep things moving. And then there are the conversations we don’t have. The feedback we choose not toContinue reading “The Conversations We’re Not Having”
Category Archives: Communication
The Blind Spots That Hold Good Professionals Back
The Blind Spots That Hold Good Professionals Back: Why being capable, experienced and committed isn’t always enough to achieve the impact you want.
The Quiet Authority Advantage: How High-Performing Leaders Eliminate Operational Noise Without Losing Control
The Quiet Authority Advantage: How High-Performing Leaders Eliminate Operational Noise Without Losing Control…
The Signal-to-Noise Ratio: How Exceptional Leaders Command Clarity in an Overwhelmed World
The Signal-to-Noise Ratio and how exceptional leaders command clarity in an overwhelmed world…
The Art of Non-Friction: How Real Influence Happens Without Forcing It
The Art of Non-Friction: How Real Influence Happens Without Forcing It
What 25 Years of Coaching Has Taught Me About Quiet Authority and Authentic Communication
What has 25 years of coaching taught me about Quiet Authority and Authentic Communication? For years, I thought the hardest part of communication was simply knowing what to say. Truthfully, much of that belief came from my own early fears. Early in my career, I lived with a genuine phobia of public speaking. To cope,Continue reading “What 25 Years of Coaching Has Taught Me About Quiet Authority and Authentic Communication”
The Cost of Confusing Assertiveness with Aggression
The cost of confusing assertiveness with aggression can be significant, both personally and professionally.
What Are You Noticing?
What are you noticing? A recent LinkedIn post caught my attention… The author suggested that perhaps the traditional elevator pitch is becoming outdated and invited people to complete the sentence: “I love my job because I get to…” I found myself thinking about the power of that small shift. Not because of the words themselves;Continue reading “What Are You Noticing?”
The Weight People Carry Quietly
One thing I’ve been noticing more and more is how much weight people carry quietly without speaking about it. On the surface, many appear capable, composed, and coping well.
Adjusting Without Losing Who You Are
1. Opening Observation Growth at more senior levels often brings a quiet tension. Professionals who have built their careers on strong values, clear thinking, and consistent behaviours sometimes find that the environment around them begins to ask something different of them. Not because what they were doing was wrong – it’s more that the contextContinue reading “Adjusting Without Losing Who You Are”