Thought for the Week – Is being “Good at Communicating” holding you back?

listening-to-respond-or-understandLast week’s Thought for the Week was “What has “Accompaniment” Got to Do with Anything?” – the art of being present, listening deeply, and empowering those we lead. If you missed it, you can catch up here

Have you ever been told you’re a great communicator because you’re always clear, articulate, and confident?

But then… something doesn’t quite land. A message gets misunderstood, or someone reacts in a way you didn’t expect.

Here’s the question: Could what makes you feel like an effective communicator actually be causing disconnection?

What do I mean by this?

Well, we often think communication is about saying the right things in the right way. But here’s a thought: Are you listening to respond, or are you listening to understand?

True connection doesn’t come from how clearly we speak – it comes from how deeply the other person feels heard.

This week, I invite you to pause and ask yourself: Am I communicating for clarity, or am I communicating for connection?

Spoiler: they’re not always the same!

“The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place.”

– George Bernard Shaw –

It would be great to hear from you about one moment recently where you felt your communication didn’t land the way you hoped?

With warmest wishes,

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Korinne Le Page
Thrive Coaching & Training – Empowering You to Thrive!
P.S. Feel free to share your experiences and insights!

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Hello, I’m Korinne … I work with committed and determined professionals who want to master their communication skills. Often they believe they are doing OK and yet they know they are not getting the results they want and deserve. I’m passionate about helping people to achieve their vision and get results. I have been working with Business Owners and Leaders for more that 25 years, helping them to realise their vision of what they truly want, overcome barriers to effective communication, so they can be the best version of themselves and thrive in their lives.

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